Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Seventeen Months!

Dear William,

I have been meaning to write you another letter for months now and can never seem to find the time. I wonder why? Oh, yes...it's probably because you, my darling boy, are a total handful! Life is never, ever boring. Or quiet. Or relaxing. Or clean. At least when you're awake. And I love it. Most of the time. :)

Physical Development
You started walking when you were 14 months old. We knew you were physically ready and able to walk long before then, but you just weren't ready. One day, though, you just decided you were ready. You had only taken a few practice steps-2 or 3 at a time-until then. But one day you just let go. You were halfway across the family room before I knew it! You haven't slowed down since then. A few weeks later you figured out how to stand up on your own, without pulling up on anything, and that was pretty much the end of your crawling. I think since you waited until a little later to start walking, you were physically strong and coordinated enough to avoid too many falls. You're now running, turning, walking sideways and backwards. You're unstoppable!

You have 7 teeth now. Your molars are coming in and you're chewing and drooling again like crazy!

Talking
You LOVE to communicate! It makes you so happy when you sign or say or tell us something in another way and we understand you. You also must be acknowledged when you talk. If not, you just keep saying the same thing over and over, usually at increasing volume.

You say: ah-choo! (when someone sneezes or coughs and when you burp), all done, ball, bath, bird, book, brush, bye-bye, car, dada, dog, hat, hot, keys, mama, that, what's that? ("wha da?"), where did it go? ("a go?")

You sign: airplane, all done, apple, ball, banana, bath, book, car, cheese, cold, dog, eat, flower, glove, hat, leaf, milk, more, no, please, read, rain, shhhhh, shoes, thank you, want

Eating
Until recently, you would eat almost anything I put in front of you with a few exceptions. I think you're finally starting to exhibit some typical toddler pickiness when it comes to food. You still don't like many things that are considered "kid food," like spaghetti or pizza. In fact, you don't like most foods that have any kind of sauce on them. I guess I should be happy, though, because you would eat fruit all day long if I'd let you. At least I know you're getting lots of good things that way. You also love chicken, black beans, cheese, pasta (but not if it has tomato sauce on it), green beans (most of the time), and anything snacky like crackers and anything sweet, which we don't let you have too often. Your new favorite thing is apples! You want them whole, with the peel on. You will sit in your high chair for about half an hour and just eat away. You still only drink milk and water.

Playing/Learning
You are a non-stop bundle of destruction energy from the time you get up in the morning! You love to play, but mostly with big people things. You rarely focus on any of your toys for very long, but you can spend a long time pushing a broom around the house, pulling dishes out of a bottom drawer, putting on/taking off gloves, or emptying your backpack or Mama's purse. You love putting things into other things (pipe cleaners into a jar, balls into a bucket, bites of food into the cup holder on your highchair tray), taking lids on and off (water bottles are your favorite), and opening and closing things with hinges (like boxes and doors). You love music and when Mama sings to you. You do some of the motions to "10 Little Monkeys," "The Itsy Bitsy Spider," "Head and Shoulders, Knees and Toes," and "The Wheels on the Bus."

Your very favorite things to play with right now are cars. No, not toys ones. The real ones. Almost every night, Daddy takes you out and lets you play in his truck when he gets home from work. You push all the buttons, take the keys in and out of the ignition, and pretend to drive. You make stellar car engine noises. You like to play in Mama's car, too. Your favorite button in her car is the one that turns on the hazard lights. :)

You like to read books. You're becoming really opinionated about which books are read to you, though, especially at bedtime. Many times we'll go through all the books on the shelf before we finally find the one that that makes you lay back against us and relax. You don't really have a favorite. It seems to change every night. You always want to read something different, but if there is a dog or a car/truck of any kind in the book, chances are you'll enjoy it.

You're getting pretty good at identifying parts of your body. You can point to your tummy, head, hair, nose, ears, and tongue (well, mostly you just stick out your tongue instead of pointing to it). You're also understanding a lot of things we say to you. If I ask if you want to take off your shoes, most of the time you'll sit down so I can do it. If we say that it's bath time, you head to the bathroom. You throw your diaper away on your own and will sometimes return things to their place and close the cabinet door or drawer if I ask you to..

You love TV waaaaay too much. You were sick with a virus about a month ago and were so sick and mopey that we let you watch more TV than normal. Those 2 days apparently ruined you and we've been working to get you to not want to watch TV all the time when you're awake. When you do get to watch TV, your favorites are "Blue's Clues," "The Wiggles," and "Signing Time."

Sleeping
You are still a great sleeper. Aside from a few rough patches here and there, you always have been. You sleep 12 hours at night without a peep. You dropped your morning nap right around the time you turned 1 and usually nap from around 11:30-1:30 now. You're still in your crib, sleeping in a sleep sack. Next month we'll be trying you out in a big boy bed!

Rites of Passage
You took your first trip to the ER on September 3. We were eating at a restaurant for Nana's birthday and you had an accident with a glass. You cut your right hand really badly and had to get 10 stitches. TEN! You were as brave as a little guy like you could be expected to be and you really enjoyed the popsicle you got after they finished your stitches. The stitches stayed in for 2 weeks. We had to clean your hand and change the bandage twice a day and we all became old pros at it! It never really slowed you down at all, either. You didn't want to put weight on your hand for a few days after the accident, but got over that pretty quickly. Your hand is still healing, and you'll have a pretty nice scar to show around someday. I'm sure that won't be our last trip to the ER, but Mama isn't anxious to do it again soon. So be careful, OK?

A few days after your accident you started Mother's Day Out. This gives Mama some time to run some errands and get things done around the house so that when you're home she can focus more attention on you. And it gives you some time out of the house so you don't get so bored! You have 6 or 7 other kids in your class. You go to music and get to play outside every day. You hear Bible stories and play with new, interesting toys. You eat your lunch there and then go right to sleep when we get home. Around the time you started walking, you started having pretty bad separation anxiety. You would be so sad and clingy when we dropped you off at the nursery at church on Sundays. You were the same way the first few times we left you at MDO, but you are starting to get over this fear. I think it is helping you to go to MDO regularly, have the same teachers, and learn that you can expect to have fun for a few hours and then Mama will come back to get you.

Your Daddy and I love you so much, little man! Even though most of the time I feel completely at a loss for what to do with you and all your energy and enthusiasm, I am so thankful that I'm your Mama. It seems like you change a little bit or learn a little more every day, sometimes every minute. I can't wait to see what the next days, weeks, and months hold.

Monday, April 23, 2012

Happy Birthday, William!

Dear William,

Today you are one year old! I think this has simultaneously been the fastest and the longest year in mine and your Daddy's lives. It has also, without a doubt, been one of the best. And scariest. And most fun. You have brought more joy into our home than we even knew was possible. We love you so much!

You are at such a fun age right now. You learn new things every day and constantly make us laugh.

  • You pull up on anything that is remotely stable and cruise like a pro. Occasionally, you get this look in your eye like you might turn loose and try out walking, but you haven't yet.
  • "Bird" is officially your first (and favorite) word. You say it whenever you hear or see a bird (or anything you think might be a bird, including police sirens and leaves blowing through the air).
  • You also say "banana" (ma-MA-ma), "mama," and "bye-bye" (ba). You also wave most of the time you say bye.
  • If you want to go outside, you beg to be held and then start waving and saying bye. You LOVE to be outside. If you can't be outside, you like to position yourself at our front window so you can at least keep an eye on things.
  • You can clap your hands, pat your tummy, and touch your nose on command. You also clap your hands anytime anyone says "Yay!" or "Good job!"
  • For the longest time we thought you were never going to crawl on your hands and knees. But now we know that you can because we've seen you do it, but only occasionally because you're just much faster on your tummy!
  • As a testament to our family's lifestyle right now, you love to play with suitcases. Especially ones with handles that go up and down. 
  • You love to play with cars and almost always make the motor noise as you drive them across the floor. You have also been known to "drive" your food across your highchair tray.
  • Daddy taught you a fun game a few weeks ago while he was "teaching" you to fall down in your crib (aka knocking you down). Now when you wake up from your naps we often find you pulling up and falling down over and over again all by yourself. You crack yourself up!
  • We didn't teach you this intentionally, but every time someone says "hello!" you put your hand to your ear like you're answering the phone.
  • You are a really good eater! You love food so much that, whenever you see food that you want, you say "Mmmmmmmm!" A few weeks ago you even did it during the Lord's Supper at church.
  • You sign "more," "all done," and "eat." I think I've seen you sign "ball," "car," "shoes," and "dog," too, but I'm not 100% sure yet.
  • In an effort to teach you not to throw your sippy cup on the floor during meal time, I started clapping and making a huge celebration of it when you or anyone else put your cup in the cup holder on your high chair. You love to be praised, so now, usually once during every meal time, you will pick up your cup just a bit and shift it around in its holder and then look at me and start to clap, waiting for me to praise you. You usually do this at least 10 times in a row before you tire of it. 
  • You think hiccups are hilarious!
As your personality develops more and more, I can't help but be so excited for the future. I can't wait to see what kind of (little) man you become. 

Your Daddy and I love you, sweet boy! Happy Birthday!


1 day old


1 week before his first birthday

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Midnight Musings


William hasn't been sleeping well at night lately. I think he's going through some sort of weird phase because he's also been cranky and clingy during the day and fighting his naps, too. Let's just say that I hope this phase end really really soon! When I talk to other moms, a lot of them mention similar phases around the 1-year mark. Why wasn't I warned?

Anyway, all these hours spent awake during the middle of the night have yielded some silly, introspective, pointless, and profound (or at least they seem profound at 3:00 in the morning) thoughts that I thought I would write down:

  • "I Need the Every Hour," the hymn that kept running through my head as a prayer/meditation for strength and patience, could also have been William's mantra for the last week. Get it? Because he needed me every hour?
  • I am very thankful for the promise in Scripture that my Father never slumbers or sleeps. Nor does he need to.
  • I turn into a complete softie when Michael is out of town.
  • Having an almost one-year old is kind of like having a newborn. Because of being up all night. Also, my almost one-year old eats 6 times in a 12 hour period.
  • I have a hard time with silence. And solitude. And being still.
  • I have changed A LOT in the last year.
  • I require A LOT less sleep than I thought a year ago.
  • The original hardwood floors in our 1950s house sure are pretty, but they are not your ally when you're trying to sneak out of your child's room once he's finally fallen asleep.
I seem to think that there were others, but they escape me at the moment. Aside from the fatigue, I've actually enjoyed these last few nights of extra snuggle time with my little man. He is so high energy and always on the move during the day that having him still and quiet in my arms is pretty nice.




Sunday, January 1, 2012

2012 Resolutions

Happy 2012, everyone! But, seriously...what happened to 2011? I feel like most of the year passed in either a pre-baby preparation frenzy or a post-baby sleep deprived haze. Anybody feel me? I don't think I even bothered making any resolutions for 2011. Since I had no idea what the year was going to be like, I guess I didn't see the point. Well, I'm not doing that again this year! And because I do much better with goals that are written down, I figured I'd publish my 2012 resolutions here.

1. Get Healthy
Normally, this resolution would be worded differently: "Lose Weight." However, I think I've finally made my peace with the fact that I'm probably not going to lose the rest of my pregnancy weight until William is weaned (and that is hopefully still several months away). And, Lord willing, I'll get pregnant again at some point this year and losing weight and pregnancy don't really go together. So, I decided to resolve to "get healthy" and choose to take smaller measures to make that happen that are attainable in my current life stage and will benefit me whether I'm nursing, working hard to lose weight, or pregnant.
  • Drink 64 oz. of water each day
  • Eat 5-6 servings of fruits and vegetables each day
  • Get 30 minutes of moderate exercise 3-4 times a week
  • Take my multivitamin every day (I forget this a lot)
2. De-clutter/Simplify my house
I'm planning to follow this calendar from MySimplerLife as a guide, but I'm under no illusions that I will complete every day, or even the majority of the days. Tomorrow, for example, I'm supposed to set up a donation station, but I will probably spend the majority of my day tomorrow trying to finally get Christmas decorations put away (don't judge me...my sister had a baby last week so today is the first day I've been home since Christmas). But, as part of this resolution, I'm resolving not to stress out if I miss a day here and there on the calendar. I figure if I just do one day a month I'll do more than I would have done otherwise, right? My ultimate goal is for everything in our house to have a place that it belongs (and "in that stack on the counter" is not an acceptable place for anything to belong).

3. Teach William to fall asleep for naps on his own
I know, I know. He's 8 months old and I still rock him to sleep for his naps. I should be ashamed, right? Well, I'm not. He's such a great night time sleeper that teaching him to fall asleep on his own for naps has not been anywhere close to the top of my list of priorities. And I love the cuddle time. But now I figure he's old enough to figure it out and, once he learns to do it, it will free some time up in my day. Also, it will make it much easier to leave him with a sitter.

4. Show hospitality more regularly
I love having people in my home, but I am awful at making it happen on a regular basis. Whether it's failing to offer an invitation or failing to be prepared for spontaneous opportunities to open our home, I just don't do a great job at making this happen. I would like to have people in our home more, whether it's just having some other moms and their kiddos over for coffee and a play date or throwing a fun dinner party. And I want to be better about keeping my home ready for hospitality: tidy (but not obsessively perfect) and stocked (simple drinks on hand, a brownie mix in the pantry).

5. Have 1 date night with Michael each month
We have been awful about having date nights since William. We have had 2 since April. That's 2 in 8 months. Not so great. So we're resolving together to have at least 1 date night a month. Anybody want to babysit? :)

6. Spend time each day in dedicated prayer and Bible reading
Again, this is an area where I have had zero consistency in the last 8 months. But, realizing that none of the goals listed above are profitable or attainable if attempted in my own strength, I want to set aside time each day to read the Word and pray, whether it's 3 minutes or 30.

Well, there they are. Feel free to ask me how things are going at any time. :)

And if you want to read some really great thoughts of making New Year's Resolutions, check on this blog.